Runner and Chaser – Many people cannot understand the twin flame connection when they are running. You may ask “Why does someone run from someone when they have such a deep intense connection?”
Many times it happens because of healing of pass-wounds, the Life lessons that need to be corrected and fulfilled. But the majority of the time it’s because of running not from their other half but actually from their own insecurities.
There is a masculine energy and the feminine energy, most people classify this as the masculine being the Twin Flame runner and the feminine being the the Twin Flame chaser.
Actually the roles can be reversed, but in fact it may not have anything to do with masculine or feminine energy, it is when there is energy in their core and spiritual work that needs healing and both twins are healing.
The runner and Chaser dynamics is not just with Twinflames but all soul mate love relationships and not only just the twin soul connection.
The twin flame runner and Chaser dynamics can continuously go from runner to runner, runner to chaser, to chaser to runner and back-and-forth.
This is part of the Twin flame merge process. The runner and chaser phase is very common when one twin is enlightened and the awakened and and the other twin is confused and scared.
Unfortunately the twinflame runner and chaser phase is very unpredictable and sometimes can go on for years.
But remember not all situations are alike, you may have read my previous articles about twin flames being many years apart and separated. Having a life with another and starting a family. Only then meeting up after years of separation and this is when the divine union takes place.
As many of you know, I was the runner, though my reasons may be different for running than other runners, the process is the same and you could read more about this in my article.
I was a Twin flame Runner, I can relate and understand the way runners think.
The twin flame runner will try to escape the situation having a complete confusion and run away from even trying to make the relationship work. There’s no reason why they will just continue to run.
They are aware of what is happening to them and it is more scary than you would think. Chasers feel as if they are getting the bad end of the stick. This is not true. Runner and Chaser phase in twin flames actually it is quite equal.
How do you stop chasing and make the runner stop running?
The fact is if they’re running, the best thing to do is let them figure it out. Remember when you chase them, it can scare them and make them run into it even a deeper fear.
You need to balance yourself and not focus on so much when they will be back, but focusing on yourself.
What if the runner continues to run and never stop running?
It may feel like it’s going on forever and will not come to end of chasing and running, but trust me, there will be a time when they do stop running.
They still feel their twin flame no matter how much they run.
It’s a time when they will realize and awaken and this time will happen when they least expect it.
Many times there is so much anxiety and fear for both twins. This is when they both have to take on their challenges together and life lessons, working on themselves. Their faith is very important and many times is tested.
Many times there is ego and fear when they are going through emotional issues.
It is a painful journey for both of them and both twins experience and emptiness, that can only be completed when they are finally reunited.
Sometimes it can go through a very short process where they complete their soul contract, finally fulfill their destiny and come together as one. And for many it may take time for them to understand their life lessons and pass the tests that are faced with.
The twin flame divine union
This is one of the most powerful experience, when both twins are ready and surrender to one another and become one.
Letting go of ego that has interfered with the reunion happening and the distraction of them merging together as one.
The twin flame awakening
It’s usually when they least expect it and happens out of nowhere, when an event or situation startles them to the point where they feel their heart is threatened emotionally, to the point that it will awaken them spiritually.
When both twins come together as one, they are both awakened. Both Twins understand that there it’s so much more between them two, not just as a romantic couple but to do service for others on this planet.
It’s about fulfilling their soul purpose on the earth together as the power couple they are meant to be.
Read more about this Powerful union. Also you can read more about my story, as me being the Runner and my husband the Chaser.
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