Can the Laws of Attraction using positive energy to attract your Soulmate or Twinflame?

This has been a common question I’m always asked by many people, it comes up in different ways.

I watched the Secret years ago and it has inspired many, attracting what you want with the laws of attraction. Keeping positive key words in your conversations will attract positivity. This is so true.

On the internet there are many different theories about Soulmates and Twinflames, I’m going to explain a few details to answer some of the questions I’ve been asked.

Looking for your Soulmate or Twin Flame is not like ordering your favorite drink at Starbucks. Because we are in control of who we get involved with or anything that we want to draw in our lives. We have to do the work and it’s our personal inner spirit that calls our Soulmate to us. Your commitment to and focus on inner spirit are only the shortcut to manifest true love that you desire and also anything else in your life.

Some of the men/women you dated were a type of soulmate. They could have been a soul impact, Soul lesson mate, Soul ego mate or karmic mate, but these were still soulmates, not all meant for long term relationships.

Having complete understanding is vital to find the love you want. Instead of just dismissing these relationships as nothing, you can learn from these experiences and the personal growth they brought in your life.

Finding your Soulmate or Twin Flame is not to ask for your wish and to be granted, taking you away to an enchanted place of paradise with no lessons or spiritual healing.

The opposite happens for Twinflames, everything that needs to be healed and awakened will manifest and experience it together. Coming to realize the truth of unconditional love and giving and receiving energy to one another.

The same is also true for soulmates who apart and need time to mend and heal.

The biggest reason people have a problem finding their soulmate or stay together, because their thoughts, energy feelings, or habits are in confliction with that desire, there are negative, brought on by trivia of the past relationships.

What are your thoughts during the day? Do you think of what went wrong with relationship? Do you say or do something to push him or her away? Do you think or feel annoyed with your past relationships?

These are many reasons of why we experience the same type of relationship over and over again. There also lessons to be learned and prep work we need to take in our lives.

Changing the way you think about the past and instead of thinking about the hurt or what went wrong, try making a list of the people you were involved with.

Make a list of the things you saw positively from this person – the lessons you learned.

Sometimes the memories might not be the greatest, but look at what it did for who you are today, maybe you have learned to be patient or get stronger. It can be almost anything you felt. The point here is to find something positive in every relationship that you are grateful for the beautiful person you are today..

Remember you don’t have to like this person. This is all about the positive that happened.

I know sometimes it’s impossible to forgive an ex. All the disappointment and hurt can bring us into depression, but this is where you have to change your way of thinking, whatever the reason, it will help you to recover from everything and be stronger and happier.

Just think about what attracted you to each of these men or women in your past. True love can’t connect in a negative environment of your soul. Our soulmate or Twinflame needs to connect with us, just as much as we need to connect with them. It is in our control to clear the path from negative baggage and start fresh.

The truth is that you don’t find your soulmate or twinflame; it happens when you are spiritually ready.

Do you have a question about your Soulmate or Twinflame?