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Twinflames – Runner and Chaser Explained!

The Definition of the Runner and Chaser in Twinflame connections.

The original soulmate connection. Twinflames
Twinflames Reuniting

By Ann Elizabeth

The original soulmate connection.

We can connect happily and comfortably to that person. With very little effort, (not like Twinflames). We find our self in very compatible love relationship.

Then there is the karmic soulmate connection – You may feel a very intense feeling for that person, they come into your life to help teach you something. Sometimes the lesson can be extremely painful, but is very necessary for spiritual growth.

Then there is Twin Souls or Twin Flames connection.

There is an instant compelled attraction of energy, the spiritual energy of the two spirits connecting over time. Over several miles, and most of the time over years.

Usually there is the initial meeting of Twinflames and one half is more spiritually “awakened”. Where the other may not need time to realize, this can take time.

There can be emotional pain even more when there are reminder from memories of previous past lives when they were disconnected.
Twin souls

Twinflames can remain in contact, but mostly the two are broken apart and separated for many years working on their own lives deal with karma in other situations before reuniting years later.

There is always one half who is the stronger vessel, realizing the two have more energy to share together this often referred to the chaser. Always looking for answers why things ended the way they did, never having closure.


The Chaser can feel the intensity of this relationship and understands that it is extremely special. This feeling is always a lingering feeling there even if the chaser doesn’t consciously know what to expect.

The intensity of love that chaser feels for their twin flame is more than they have ever felt. When the Twinflame Runner just runs away without any warning, the chaser will feel an intense emotional serge of energy more than they can handle.

At that point, they will do almost anything to help and get back together with the Runner.

The pain from those past lives comes back when the Runner runs away.

Twinflame energy connecting 2015
Twinflame Energy

There can be emotional pain even more when there are reminder from memories of previous past lives when they were disconnected (be sure to read my previous post about Past life Soulmates.

The Chaser knows there is a deeper meaning to their  love relationship they need be together and has a feeling inside that everything fits like a puzzle, the both complete each other.



The Chaser might be confused and might not even be able to understand why this is so strong and has never felt this way with anyone else? And will continue to wait it out for the Runner, knowing that they can’t to lose the Runner in this life, no matter what.

That is when an awakening happens. Understanding the intensity sacredness of this relationship. Knowing that Twinflames belong together no matter what. This is very difficult for the Chaser, and takes time. Once the runner phase is over, the Runner will realize where they are at and will actually return, to be reunited.

With everything the Twinflame Chaser is going through, the runner will return.

Many of you have written me over last few months on what to expect with a Soulmate, Twinflame connection, in this article I will explain the process and trials that Soulmates, Twinflame can sometimes go through before finding harmony with one another. It's a controversial subject with many different views online on what all of this means, I've been researching it and for many years, also asked the my Guides, on how to describe the process of this beautiful soul connection. The Twinflame or what is sometimes called a Twin Soul, is actually, the other half of your spirit. At the beginning, you were created with one spirit separating into two souls, one masculine the other feminine, that would make it energetically part of you! And because of the separation you had with your other half, your unconscious mind is always searching for that divine powerful connection. This is the main reason people turn lover relationships away, and continue to search, not exactly knowing what they are really looking for in relationship. They are missing their Twin-Flame, but it doesn't always mean you will find your twinflame at the same time. Actually there is 50% chance you will meet in a liftime. When you do meet your Twinflame, it will be an amazingly intense surge of energy. There will be no doubt in your mind that this person is the "ONE". You will feel like you're on an energetic level, you will feel differently, also you think differently. This is an absolutely life changing event for the both of you. This can also happen with same sex relationships. Some people incarnated as the same sex, nevertheless, it's no less intense or powerful than any other relationship. Everyone is different, and yes everyone has a Twinflame, and you may be with a compatible soulmate, that's great, you will find many similarities as yourself and be content with your soulmate, the love will be strong and you both can live a long and abundant life. The universe has a plan for you to be with someone you can love and be loved, live in harmony and find peace with each other. Your Twinflame may not be meant to be joined with you in this lifetime, it will follow into the next. However, there are reasons why you were unable to meet up, your other half is in another part of the world, or has not awoken spiritually, you will still be able to have a perfectly content and happy life with your Soulmate for now, perhaps you will meet up with your Twinflame in the next lifetime. But once you do meet your Twin flame it will change your life forever, if you are involved in a relationship, I hate to break it to you, but things with your partner or spouse will be ever be the same. You and your twinflame will have no mistake, you know each other inside and out, at the first site and day of meeting up. Twinflame connections are the most strongest and intense bond between couples, even if you meet your Twinflame when you're young, you will be together for your entire lives. The spiritual connection is so powerful it becomes what defines you as a person. A beautiful and exciting experience starts to unfold when you're with your Twin Soul. It will open many hidden emotions and you will have to come to terms with yourself and finally accept or just let go of past negativities and disappointments in your life. This purging and Detoxing process. Sometimes it can be a very toxic relationship then changing to the most rewarding experience your have ever felt. It will actually force you to search even deeper in yourself than ever before then lay everything on the table (so to speak). You will never be able to hide anything from your Twinflame. Over time it's gets better, you have built an amazingly unbreakable spirit bond that is sealed tight with pure unconditional love. Twinflames don't have it easy, there is always some type of chaos and negative standing in front of twinflames connecting, sometimes Twinflames have a difficult time with a process of finding one another and usually it means there is some type of pain and hurt involved. Every situation is different and unique in its own way, please read my article about Soulmates and Twinflames to get a better understanding on the chaotic energy they may face. When you first meet your Twinflame, the strong energy of positivity awake to a higher level of spirituality, your goals are now mirrored into another person. You are about to manifest the life t you always wanted, feel as that you can accomplish more than ever. This has to start with you. If your alone and still searching for a Soulmate, Twinflame or partner can enhance love in your life, that's great, but you need to be satisfied with who you are and where you are from. Don't think, you will be content and happy when you are in a relationship. This is the main reason relationships fail, some of the most wealthiest people in the world are completely miserable, remember money can't buy love. Some Soulmate and Twinflame relationships suffer stressful energy with depression, anxiety and panic attacks You need to be completely secure with your self, knowing yourself worth, having your way of rising above all challenges in life.
Soulmate Love

Twinflames are connected by an eternal sacred soul bond that will never break.

They are created for each other and as long as they both are on earth, nothing or no one can take them away.

Twinflames will come back once they are completely ready for the intensity of this connection. It can take time, chasing is not going to speed things up.

During the connection process of both Twin souls need to remain strong.  Twin flame connections never happen at the most convenient times.  They usually are in committed relationships, having money issues, and living miles apart, there are many practical reasons why these two, shouldn’t be together. Very common can be a big differences in age, cultures or religion, the list goes on, but they still manage to be together no matter what the circumstances are.

The relationship between Twin flames is very spiritual. You’ll understand the twinflame relationship, the more you explore your spirituality.

Please read my previous blog posts about Soulmates and Twinflames

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