When someone first meets their twin flame this opens a new world of spiritual awareness with unconditional love, that awakens and takes your spirit their spirit to a new level.
When merging with our twin flame takes place, this will open many channels of energy that pass through both twin souls. Twinflames feel each other constantly, sense each other’s energy and are drawn together.
The psychic spiritual connection between twin flames is intense through a spiritual place of total love and eternal bliss.
Many of you know I was a Twin flame Runner. There were challenges and chaos to say the least, so I want to share my experience here, on how I overcame the running phase, becoming the stayer.
When I met my Twin flame (Chaser).
It was online back in may of 2001, I did not go searching for any type of soulmate. It happened when I didn’t realize it. Being s spiritualist and researching Soulmates for many years, I to did not see it coming!
In the spring of 2001, I just bought my first computer and webcam. I heard about going live with people (like the movie back to the future lol).
I found a site and thought this could be cool. I was lightly chatting, just so amazed how it all worked, until a man approached me, who resembled Tom Cruise (always was a fan) started chatting with me trying to get my attention, so he had it, he was French (barely spoke English) and from Paris France, I’m in Cleveland Ohio. We chatted for few a hours on webcam, anyways it got late, we ended our conversation (no information exchanged).
I thought seriously? It was all too good to be true. So not to get hurt again (I’ve been hurt before and was on guard – the typical Runner) I never went back to this site (Ivist), it got scary and decided that video chat rooms are not for me.
After a few days (didn’t know too much about computers) I didn’t notice someone sending me friend request on MSN messenger, I kept closing the window after about a month, I finally understood how the messenger worked and he found me! He found me through my IP address and continued to search for me.
He said he felt that he needed to log on this video chat room for a purpose (not searching for anyone) and he said when he saw my eyes, he knew I was the “one” and from that moment on he said he would never let me go (the Chaser), he knew I wasn’t ready but he said he was always patient and didn’t care how long it took, he knew I would break my wall.
So from there we video chatted every day, but I was always on a defense, I didn’t want any type of committed relationship. But I was in love with him and drawned to his spirit (no not just because he looked like a young Tom Cruise lol).
We decided to meet 6 months later we had planned to meet in the middle of Sept 2001. But then 9/11 happened, so we had to postpone our initial meeting.
We had some disagreements (typical long distance relationships), this went on until Jan 2002 he came to the USA, what was supposed to be a week visit turned into a 3 month visit.
The Day he was due to go back, that morning I woke up and said lets get married! (He originally proposed to me online), I was awoken, I realized I had to wake up and open my eyes to my twin soul, being the runner and grounded me to my other half, so 3 hours before his plane was to leave we got married. He left back to France and came back to me a little while later and we have been together ever since.
Usually the one will run most common it’s the masculine energy but for me it was the feminine energy. But they can always switch
So you ask why do they run? Runners are running away from their self (like I was). Runners do not run from chasers.
They run from things they do not want to accept, they can be scared, they don’t want to change their life, they are settled into a comfort zone and you bring their spirit to life and they need to become spiritually aware and wake up. They can also run from true love, from the deep intensity of the soul connection, they only run from their selves.
The runner behaviors? Refusing to communicate when it is needed, trying to cut the ties, denial of their soul connection, disappearing from area they first found each other, self sabotage pushing their twin away, going back to past relationships without love, run to a substance abuse.
This can make the chaser to search for the runner, sometimes scaring them away, making them run further.
The chaser is also running away from their own negative energy, their feelings from the runner of past pain, their sadness, their healing from a past situation. These things all need to be healed before they can live in harmony.
Now where does this lead the chaser to do? Send messages, texts, emails, phone calls. The chasers wants a response, something that can ease their pain, but it just won’t speed up the process, (trust me I know).
So the best advice I can give to the Chasers, stop chasing the Runners, and Runners stop running!
Something I found that helps both the Runner and Chaser
This is something that has to place when the time is right. in the mean time you can start by loving yourself and your other half, you can do this.
Your allowing the pain that you can clear on your own, your other half is not responsible for this negativity. The pain from the times you ran or chased, and everything you may be running from. Pain, that has built up for many years, needs to be released.
You don’t need to run or need to chase. You are able to survive this just like I did with my Twin flame connection. You can free yourself. Doing what this soul connection was originally meant for you both to look at. Not just the relationship. Focusing on you and creating a peaceful place in this world.
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Many many thanks Ann. My twin flame is the runner and I have vowed to not chase. Your post brought me solace – my mind understands but my heart and soul are still trying to catch up. I know that it all comes down to divine timing, more will be revealed.
I hate being the chaser, I have been knocked down so many times by my twin flame. I’m so lost I recognize the runner phase but why would someone who loves you put you in so much pain.
Amber- We need pain in order grow and improve upon ourselves spiritually. Pain forces us to reevaluate our situations and seek lasting and meaningful solutions. After all, without it, what incentive would we have to change?
Love and Light to you!
Also- thank you for your post, Ann! 🙂
Your welcome
Thank u u too honey
Great explanation!
I feel you pain Amber. My twin has caused me pain beyond belief but somehow my intuition says not to give up. I don’t believe he understands our connection truely yet for what it is. It has been almost 2 years of constant pain and I know it will continue for a while longer. There are a lot of obstacles. My mind knows now is the time to let go and let him find me when he is ready – that is what I am trying to do – although my heart won’t let go!!! We will get there. Best of luck and love xx
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I am the chaser and it hurts so much because i try to not chase my runner but i need closure and he will not contact me its as if he has moved on without me, what a runner to do?
Ann, you are amazing my runner is connecting again still working it out but took your advice and stop chasing update to come he is communicating more and the pain is not as bad, thank you!
Your story of runner and chaser for twin flames is very similar to what my beloved wife (and lifelong best friend) and I lived when we first started to know each other. As I read your story I could see so many similar occurrences that paralleled ours! Amazing.
Thanks so much for the sharing…
Thank you
Wow this is incredible and explains so much. I am definitely the chaser, he has hold me many things to push me away but I know he’s my twinflame and I know he realizes it as well.
I know in time everything works out, but time needs to hurry up because this has been the longest 2 months of my life.
You nailed it. Thank you. Made me understand it a lot better, hard to explain to people this twinflame connection when someone hasn’t experienced it.
My twin and I met at work January 2015 we were at a table in the cafeteria and he was at one end on the right side and I was on one end on the right side. I keep feeling something kept drawing me near him I kept staring and when I turned my head felt him staring. We had never spoke he was a new worker then one day he came down before he left and we started talking like we knew eachother forever. He said to me u look familiar and I said to him you do to like I know u from somewhere. He and I started talking alot at work then exchanged numbers we didn’t talk alot on the phone. Then we had relations while I was in a relationship with my boyfriend I felt the worst about it but I tried to fight what ever was drawing me near him. But it didn’t work. After a while my boyfriend and I separated. But I know my twin left in may came back in August Said we are just friends left in October came back December we got close in February he left in April said he was bored thst he cant get to attached. I told him I loved him now he’s gone again but this time he was really disrespectful.
I know the feeling…..
2 months??…. If it was that easy…. I am still in it for 4 years now.
Took the words out of my mouth…..2 months is nothing…..Ive just ticked over the 4 year mark too.
Yea at 2 months ur a rookie !!! How is after for years ? I’m going on 2 years , still not easy , , , shes in my heart and soul, just not in real life ,,,,but love her with all my heart , unconditionally and with out expectations , support her journey , but miss her that words cannot explain
I am going on almost a decade. I got tired after a year and moved on, but for some reason over the last year I am back at the chase again. UGH
I’ve been going for 7 years now.
Me too
man i’m having the hardest time trying to understand my runner. she’s currently in a relationship which totally pissed me off, not because of the relationship itself but because i know its a runners tactic to find a distraction…and run from working on loving themselves. it becomes tough because i my heart and third eye constantly…yet i have to find the strength as the chaser to let go and stop chasing…but MAN it’s been challenging. Anyone else going through this…or have advice?
As I sit here on my break from work writing this comment I’m in tears. I’m flooded in tears because what I’ve just read describes my situation exactly. I love this guy with all my heart I’ve never been more certain that I’ve met the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I even went to a psychic who confirms we are indeed twin flames.
But he keeps on running and running. Now I know the more I chase him the less it helps. 3 days ago we got into an argument and he cut all form of communication from me. He blocked my Facebook and instagram then I find out he’s talking to his ex again and even though they’re not together they are talking once again. When I tried to express how I felt about him he simply cussed me out and told me off and said he never had feelings for me and does not now that he was faking it all because I was helping him pay his bills.
Yet the psychic I saw is insisting he’s just denying his feelings and surpassing them. Whatever the case may be I refuse to believe that he doesn’t care about me and that he doesn’t love me. I know at some point he showed me so much love I didn’t know what to do with it all. But the way he treats me now would indicate otherwise. Makes me sad but I hope him and I can be reunited again soon.
You must give him space and let him go. The only way it will work is if you completely leave it to the universe to work it out.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s sad.
I’m a chaser. All I get is denial of feelings from the man I know to be my twin flame. I’m nearly 2 years into it all and finding it really hard to understand.
Im curious, what makes you so sure that he is your twinflame and not a relationship you need to let go off? I have same encounter as well..
He has been let go of. I still feel we have a connection, but I have put him out of my mind and am using my energies for more productive pursuits.
I’d like a phone session if possible. First session is free???? Just curious. Thx, Judy
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My twin flame and I reverse the runner/chaser roles. One minute I’m the chaser, and he’s the runner. The next time I’m the runner and he’s the chaser. It seems to go back and forth and has been rocky. I’m almost certain I’m the awakened one and he hasn’t awakened fully just yet. We both still have some healing to do within ourselves from past issues, etc and although it’s been challenging we both never stray far and come back to one another within a couple of days, because the separation from one another is too much. Since the runner/chaser roles are reversed from time to time between us how do we both get past this, so we can finally be in harmony. Any and all tips/ideas and info would be deeply appreciated! Thank you so much. ❤
I’m a Stayer / chaser as it were,,, been patiently waiting,, have done all I can ,,surrendered , prayed , clear my issues ,,and nothing !! Been 2 1/2 years , watching her ignore,, run ,,,be cold hearted,,, well keep running ! I’m done ! I love her unconditionally without expectations, but enjoy your life . You passed on True Love, its your free will to enjoy . God Bless my dear .
I feel you Rick its been almost 2 years and sometimes I feel like fool chasing this person who seems to want me one moment we are connecting and the next he is running to the point he married someone else this is the most craziest relationship I’ve ever encountered sonetimes just want to let go but think about him all the time!!
Well I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks this is crazy, but I’ve got to the point it’s mentally and emotionally exhausting !!! She doesn’t give a rats ass , , , , i love her , but it’s time to stop caring and let it go to God,,, if it’s his will and hers ,she will return someday ,,,if not ,,then put it down to a good time !! Statically, how many return after years ??? Minimal ,,,enjoy your life as you run from true love ,,see ya next lifetime
thank you for the inspiring content. i had a private reading from you previously which you told me that the energy you picked up between me and *someone was so intensed and we bound to have more in the future. im slowly waiting.. even though he has told me that he will never like me as the feelings isnt right and he has stopped contacting me and we have stopped seeing each other. I really do hope it is a runner-chaser relationship and not sth i need to let go of.
Ann, thank you for this… He briefly chased, of course I gave in… Couldn’t help myself… Well then he ran and I let him go without a chase. Decided to move on after some time then all the sudden, BOOM. Feel like I am back to almost a decade ago all over again for the past year. I finally tried to give a little chase, but he just ignores me. After reading this I have decided to give it a rest and stop the chase. I shut down all social media to sever any direct connections with him. He wants me, he’s gonna have to take on the chaser role dig to get to me. I am of tired of chasing.
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Has anyone been blocked by any means of communication by the runner and the runner eventually came back?
The immense connection we had, I could still feel. I just don’t know if I need to let go of him for good.
It’s way more complicated than chaser and runner. In my TF situation, my TF and I are both married in nearby cities with kids. If we left our spouses, our kids would have to change schools and would live in different cities. My TF is very committed to his children and knows that if he left, he’d be away from his children that he wants to be with 100%. He has told me that he will not be with me until his kids are grown. He says he can’t be with me until then.
We are both madly in-love and we keep hitting a wall because we want to be in full union.
We are both currently heart broken and we work in the same building, so we are keeping in touch. He keeps telling me that I will never lose him and that he will find me when the time is right, if I run from this situation. He feels very sad, but can’t abandon his kids (as he sees it).
It’s a really sad situation to be in. I am making myself move on so I can feel peaceful again. I am a naturally happy person even though I too am not happily married. I make my own happiness and my kids are beautiful. I always find happiness in living, but being without my TF brings a huge sense of loss and sadness.
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Beautiful.., thanks for sharing Ann????
You’re welcome!!