When your Soulmate is not ready to Reunite – What to do?

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There are many questions about twin flames and Divine soulmates. I will explain a little more on what your true purpose is. Twin flames are totally different, but still part of the Soulmate collective. With Soulmates, you have more than one and they serve different purposes throughout your life, but you only have one Twin flame. Twin flames can feel the dynamic energy that pulls them together as soon as they look into each other’s eyes. It’s a magnetic energy that is very intense. This feeling will be something that you have never experienced before. You can sense the feeling of relief as soon as you both meet, but at the same time there is an overwhelming sense of fear. Twin flames Divine union, it’s not about having the most beautiful romantic relationship. They are actually sent to help us learn about ourselves and find our authentic selves. Our egos automatically return back to 3-D and there is a painful push & pull surge of energy that becomes extremely difficult, like in a painful separation. This will feel like the most painful experience that you had ever felt and there is nothing that can relieve the pain. It’s like having this person 24/7 in your mind. Many times, past fear-based energy will come up and open up old wounds, making the both of you visualize and realize what are your own faults and how to correct them, along with releasing & surrendering in order to reach a higher frequency with one another to the 5D level. Twin flame connection process stages. Twin flames are set together to work on themselves energetically and simultaneously. Though they both need to be ready and order for union to take place. Even if one twin thinks they’re ready that their twin isn’t, it is in fact very mutual and they both are not ready. This is called the ego-based energy, no matter how much you worked on yourself, there’s always something else that you need to work on. What is the twin flame purpose? Many think that Twin flames are the ultimate love connection and everyone wants their Twin flame to be united. Yes, because the feelings are so intense, but it is not what they are intended to do together on earth. Before they can find love and a total bliss with one another, there is so much work they need to do on themselves in order to get things right. Twin flames can feel the 5D energy level when they are together, and then pulled back into the 3-D in order to work on themselves and see where they are at in order to become they’re authentic self. Twin flames can go to those highs and lows for many years before they do finally get things balanced. There is usually a separation phase that happens before they can realize their mistakes. Many times, Ego is the biggest Challenge, which they need to remove an order to see their inner truth. This is the main reason why they go through the separation phase. Often referred to the Runner and the Chasers stages. In order for them to heal and learn about themselves, they need to find themselves in total solitude in order to relate to their inner strength and open their heart. Ego can prevent them from supporting and gaining strength with the higher purpose to connect and serve others. At the beginning stages, Twin flames are meant to test and get through the challenges in order to release egotistical power over themselves and surrendering to one another to find their own balance. Because of their deep intense connection, the separation can go on for some time, in many cases years. As they struggle and merge harmoniously towards one another, Twin flames have a higher calling with each other and to serve the world. They first need to be healed and come into a complete balance. Twin flames heart center connect energetically and telepathically. They can receive messages with love and reassurances that they are connected and coming together. Although it is not a physical voice, the energetic feeling of just knowing their other half is right next to them. In order to find their true authentic self, they must first find the balance inside each other. There are many unresolved issues and past old wounds that need healings. They must be released and they need to come to terms with. When twin flames first meet, a certain trigger happens and their emotions are amplified to the highest level, as though they may feel the love in 5D, there’s also unresolved issues that seem to come to the surface. Twin flames are not meant to feel pain but depending on what they have been through all their lives and prior to meeting, they need to work on themselves in order for the Divine union to happen. Twin flame emotional energies need to open up and accelerates one another’s hearts center. Once they opened their heart, they need to accept and learn to love themselves, then they will be able to submit their spirits as one, coming into a Divine union and feeling a total bliss… the most highest energy of love. Twin flames: their true purpose and spiritual dynamics

Many of you know we have more than one soulmate that enters in our lives but not all are the same, sometimes we are sent certain people to help us learn about ourselves and grow spiritually.

Where  others are meant to be lifelong partnerships, friendships and soul partners. You may have met one or several different soul mates in your lifetime, depending how spiritually aware you are.

Many times you meet someone who you think is your soulmate, but ending up into heart ache or a toxic type of relationship. But then having total closure knowing that it helps you grow into the person you are today, later meeting up with this person and having total closure with an understanding of the purpose of why you both were together and why it could not work out.

Whenever you meet a soulmate, there is a certain sense of healing that will happen between you both. There is a sense of psychic energy that you both will feel with each other.

Many Soul mates are ready to experience and are open to this but many won’t be ready and this can go into stalemate energy.

Whenever you hear the word soulmate everyone starts thinking this is a long-term partnership that it’s like a match made in heaven.

The truth is that there is so many that come for many reasons, to help us find that true love that we all search for, but sometimes many are sent as a steppingstone to help you get to where you need to be ultimately.

This usually happens when they are very young and then later meeting someone who actually changes your life and relationship feels so connected.

The only problem is they are not ready and will pull away for no reason without warning, especially when the relationship is at its best, having absolutely no closure of why this person ran from such a beautiful romantic love relationship that either of you both ever felt with anyone else.

This doesn’t make any sense right? Actually it does and I will explain, this is commonly called the runner and the chaser phase with twin flames they go through the honeymoon (as I mentioned in the past articles) where everything is so beautiful and perfect that nothing else can compare but then just out of nowhere when it is at its peak this person A.K.A the runner will just pick up and runs and without any reasons why, sometimes even with a third party, but then coming back to the chaser, because this is where their home is.

Soulmates connections are spiritual but not always forever.
Many times there is a life lesson or karmic energy attached to this relationship they both need to learn and recover from past life energies.

Many people obsess over how to find a soulmate or how do I meet my twin flame or karmic connection answer is simple you don’t look for this type of connection but seek out the person that is drawn to you. The way to find your true soulmate is to align and embrace your spirit.

You have to learn to love yourself and discover who you truly are and the only way to do this is to look deep inside your heart, this will draw a higher frequency vibration level to attract your true soul partner by manifesting the connection into your life.

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4 Replies to “When your Soulmate is not ready to Reunite – What to do?”

    • Thanks for the reply but I don’t know how can I express but I feel very humiliating being human with good deeds I m not getting my soulmate. It just good for nothing. What is the use of being born as human. ?

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      • Hi Meenakshi,

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, and igniting insights within me as well.

        I don’t fully understand the part of your expression: “I feel very humiliating being human with good deeds,” but I do understand your words that stem from frustration, “I m not getting my soulmate. It just good for nothing.”

        I don’t know if this answer to your last question (“What is the use of being born as human?”) will be helpful to you, but I thought I’d give it a shot.

        I trust that one of the main benefits of being human is that we’re given the priceless, golden opportunity to experience this thing called EMOTION (a Divine gift) to the fullest extent—ranging from the polarity of the deepest fear, all the way to the deepest love.

        For example, if one has lived their entire life so far with a silver spoon in their mouth—meaning, a life of luxury and happiness (absent from emotional pain and suffering), a supporting family, many friends, a positive environment, physical safety, financial security, many material possessions, etc.—then this person, because they have not experienced the OPPOSITE of these seemingly happy times, is unable to appreciate (let alone DEEPLY appreciate) Life.

        Therefore, they’re unable to deeply/UNCONDITIONALLY love self and interconnected others.

        So even though these “happy” people seem to have it all, they’re actually missing out on the most profound life experience of this Universe and beyond, which is Unconditional Love (different from CONDITIONAL love that many within this world have experienced throughout human history).

        However, those who HAVE experienced much lower energies that stem from fear (pain and suffering)—much heartbreak, frustration, loneliness, sadness, anger, abandonment, betrayal, various forms of abuse, lack of abundance in its various forms, lack of freedom, lack of power, etc.—and have remembered to RISE above these life challenges (raise their vibrational frequency to their full-potential, Multidimensional essence) , are able to deeply/UNCONDITIONALLY love self and interconnected others.

        Why? Because learning lessons from challenging life experiences, and gaining much wisdom, builds a tremendous amount of CHARACTER, which is INVALUABLE, and no one can ever take that away, or even buy it with money.

        I trust that when we reach a consistent state of Balance and Harmony with our male and female energies within (regardless of gender) —by UNCONDITIONALLY accepting/loving ALL aspects of self (which helps us to FULLY do so for interconnected others as well)—we will automatically attract to ourselves our Twin Soul/Twin Flame in the physical (who is also a whole and balanced being); hence, outer world mirroring inner world.

        Until then, may we continue to honor ALL of our relationships/soulmates who are just as valuable as our Twin Soul/Twin Flame (and ULTIMATELY, is The One and the same), and who reflect back to us many things we can learn, grow and spiritually evolve from.

        Meenakshi, though I don’t know who you are (human to human), I have no doubt that our souls have planned for us to cross paths and communicate from our hearts so that we can further grow from this experience.

        In addition, I have no doubt that your birth (among ALL interconnected others) on planet Earth was no mistake—since cosmically intelligent Spirit makes no mistakes—but rather, was part of the Divine Plan.

        Your existence has highly benefited the ALL of Life (All That Is) throughout this Universe and beyond whether you realize it or not (whether it becomes seen or unseen by you).

        For instance, 22 years from now, someone may remember and deeply appreciate your genuine, kind words that uplifted them, empowered them, and even changed their life, though to you, it was only one, simple sentence.

        Don’t give up my soul sister, and always follow your Heart! 😉

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        • Thanks for replying after a long wait I got half of my ans. Being a single parent I fight alot with circumstances . Suffer a lot. But yet I am grown up alot as being female as mother and as human. Your last para click me. When Last time I wrote you I was in very frustrated mood. Now circumstances again difficult but my soul asked me to fight don’t stop don’t tire . This trouble will bring you new opportunity to win life.I feel I deserve best soulmate or I can say my son deserve best father and better life and it bound to happen because I pray for your reply your help and you replied it means my prayers are reaching to God and my soulmate also so he must have to come. Pls pray for me. I promised my soul I will never leave let it down. I will fight.I will live happy health life with my son and soulmate. With great respect and gratitude once again thanks.

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