How to Connect With Your Soulmate or Twin flame

Are Twin flame or Soulmate connections easier relationships?

The truth is that all soul connections (including Soulmates, karmic and Twinflames) can go through the connecting process and this can take time, energy, commitment and patience.

Think of a Soul mate (or twinflame) relationship as you would with a garden. Continuously planting seeds, embracing and allowing time to heal by working on yourself. When your Souls first connect, the energy is on higher vibration level that will nourish your souls together like the way rain is for your garden.

When you work on yourself by first meditating and loving yourself, accepting what is in front of you, how to correct and help  your spiritual  garden grow, you will find yourself in an ultimate soul bond experience that continues to develop, blossom and growing deeper, everyone’s situation is different and no two soul mate relationships are ever the same, we are all unique.

Are Soulmates and Twinflame always honest with each other?

It’s good to be honest about everything in life (honesty is the best policy) especially with your soulmate, if one is running or in denial, they block the truth that is in their heart from their soul partner, causing them to say anything to cover up their fear and blocking true inner emotional feelings, it’s not right but they will eventually come clean and confess the truth, if you ever happen to catch them in a white lie, just be patient they will open up with the truth when they are ready.

Soul mate and twinflame relationships do not need to know every little thing on what goes on in each others life.  It’s best to treat them exactly how  you want to be treated, when you feel you need to say something then ask yourself “will this help our relationship?”

When you’re stressed out, having anxiety, disgusted or frustrated about something they said or did, try another way to relax, exercise helps, a nature walk yoga or meditation. instead of focusing on the negative. You will feel so much better!

Do Soul mate and Twin flames ever have conflict with each other?

Don’t believe others when they say Soulmates have it so easy and everything is perfect, there is always a conflict in these relationships.

I have been working with different types of soulmates for many years and everyone is so different, although may seem the same. Now in the beginning of their relationship, there is happiness, love  and never any disagreement. But once the honey moon phase is over, reality sets in and a shift happens, in many soulmate situations the Runner and the Chaser phase forms, there is a fear based feeling that causes the runner to run away from the one person they thought was the “One” now has done a 360 by running away, (please read more about the runner and chaser).

Without understanding the spiritual meaning with their true soul purpose and journey, it will be an extremely painful and difficult process for many, some cases it can go on for years, but as I mentioned before everyone’s love relationship is unique and different and must not be compared with others.

Many has referred the Twin Soul Runner and Chaser relationship to being doomed, but it isn’t, this is a learning experience for both and it means that there are trials and tests with working on yourselves to get through this and complete your own life lessons to live in harmony for eternal.

There is negative and positive sides with all love relationships, so having a little conflict is considered healthy (the best part is making up),  this forces them both to recognize their mistakes (no one is perfect) and understanding their differences to their perspectives on life situations.

This will make them look deeper inside their true authentic self, while examining their spirituality, this will help them both learn to appreciate those little things that they never really noticed and help make corrections to a higher frequency and vibrational level. Once fully merged and connected they become a powerful soul couple.

Do Soul mates and Twinflame  think the same thoughts?

Yes they can, we can be spiritually connected to many not just one, Soul twins can answer or finish each other sentences, there is usually an empath to one or both of the Soul twins. Both feeling one another’s energy. You may feel your other half but we don’t share the same mind.

Soul mates think and feel everything from each other, desiring and craving the same things in their life. They are able to tune into each others energy but always remember you both have two completely different souls in separate bodies with separate brains, (Yes Twin flames are first 1 spirit split into two), everyone has freewill to explore life and make choices.

Will my soul or twin connection love me no matter what I do to them?

Actually taking anyone (even your soulmate) for granted is never a positive lifestyle to live . This is going against the first rule with being with your Soulmate and that is to love yourself first, without love given to the most important person in your life, will make it impossible to love, live or attract your soulmate (or twinflame).

Getting even, having resentment or getting them jealous with another(you get the idea), will be doing the opposite with connecting your energies, will actually be hurting yourself.  Sometimes Runners will neglect their other half, this is when spirituality takes a huge role with understanding the Runner and Chaser phase to help cope with this type of energy.

Also not being healthy or taking care of yourself, it’s a fact your soul mate or Twin flame will accept you for who you are, but when you let yourself go internally and externally you are neglecting you – Mind, Body and Spirit and your other half feels it.

Now it’s true we can’t be perfect or become high maintenance like a celebrity, we all age and sometimes gain a little weight and this is life but doesn’t mean you are giving up on yourself, it’s all about loving you and wanting to be your healthiest and very best.

Getting your annual physical checkups, exercise, eating clean and getting enough sleep to balance your energy with your Soulmate.

Eating healthier and avoiding foods that are processed, eating all natural whole foods will help you in many ways to be healthier. Eating more fruits and vegetables will bring you back to nature and your body opens to spiritual and psychic energy all around you.

Communication is better with your soulmate/twinflame when you are energized. Spiritual energy levels are on a higher frequency with a  healthy and clean diet (organic choices when available). Reducing alcohol will enhance psychic energy connection with Soulmates. Everything you do has a part with connecting your spiritual energy together.