Myths about Soulmate and Twinflame connections

Divine Soulmates & Twinflame Connection

Myth 1: Twinflame or Soulmate connections are the easiest Relationships.

All Soulmate and twinflame relationships are not easy. Sometimes we expect our love to go smoothly without any energy or maintenance and without problems. Because we are soulmates?

Every relationship soulmates or not can takes time, energy, love,  commitment and determination.

Think of a Love relationship as a garden. Work on yourself and think your soulmate is the soil. When you both connect, the energy will water your garden like the rain.  When you tend to your Spiritual love garden you will be rewarded with an ultimate soulmate or Twinflame relationship that will bloom and blossom, growing bigger with a little time.

Myth 2: Soulmate connections never have  any conflict.

Any love relationship without some type of conflict is a relationship that is lie. You are human, he or she is human. You have two different personalities, and energy. How is possible to not have any conflict? The primary focus is how to handle and deal with these issues.

I’ve been working with couples that are soulmates (or twinflames), At the beginning of the relationship, it was filled with happiness, harmony, passion and without a single disagreement or argument. Then all of sudden an energy shift happens, there is hurt and conflict happening. This doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed, it means that it needs some work to get along and that is perfectly normal.

Some conflict is healthy, it forces the couple to look at their differences to understand both of your perspectives on life. Making you look deep inside yourself, to examine your own spirit and beliefs, learning how to appreciate the little things. This becomes an opportunity to open up and develop stronger as a couple.

Myth 3: Soulmate connections are extremely romantic.

Yes it is true, in the beginning of a soulmate love relationship, it’s butterflies in your stomach, our hormones levels are off the charts, making the passion extremely high, then the chemicals soon fade and we are left with true love or a big disappointment.

We should not compare our love life with everything we see on TV, other people’s lives or what you read on social media. If you really think about it, What is it really? Gifts, jewelry and flowers? These are materialistic things. The key is take the relationship and let it grow like I mentioned above, as if it was a garden of love growing.

Myth 4: Soulmates have think the same.

We can be spiritually connected to someone, answer each other sentences, feel each others energy but we do not share the same brain.  Soulmate connections are deeper than the non soulmate connections, but you will not always think the same thoughts 24/7.

Many people think that if you are soulmates then you are one and you will think and feel everything, wanting and needing the same things in life. The truth is that you have 2 different souls in 2 separate bodies with 2 separate brains, (Yes Twinflames are  one spirit split into 2), This gives you both freewill and explore new experiences since you will share your own preferences with one another.

Myth 5:  Soulmates should always be able to speak their mind no matter what.

Yes it is good to be honest about everything,  but you still need to understand the other person’s feelings. Your Soulmate does not have to hear everything you have on your mind. Treat your soulmate, just as you would like to be treated, If you feel you have to say something first ask yourself – Is this good for the relationship?

If you are stressed or frustrated about something. try to find another  way to let go of negativity like a good walk, Zumba or yoga. Rather than focus on negativity. Trust me you will feel much better and thank me later.

Myth 6: Soulmates always have amazing sex, or it doesn’t really matter.

Many people think that if you are with your true soulmate or twinflame then the sex will be amazing, absolutely mind blowing. But there are many who believe that when you are with a soulmate it is ethereal that sex does not need to enter the equation.

Sex is not just a human experience, but is also a spiritual one.  This connects us to higher level with each other.

Myth 7:  If I’m with my soulmate or twinflame he or she love me no matter I do.

Taking someone for granted is not a positive way to live even with your soulmate. This is giving yourself the permission to be as irresponsible, or negative to someone and thinking that he or she will love you no matter what.

Or you can just stop taking proper care of yourself (mind, body and spirit) and still expect him or her to be totally attracted to you. Yes we will not always be at our best, somethings do happen, we all get older and may gain on a few pounds, this is totally different than giving up  on your self and not caring to improve.

Please read more about the definition of a Soulmate and twinflame to get a better understanding on your connection.

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