Twin flames & Soulmates: understanding the process with Runner & Chaser stages

Posted on by — 1 Comment ↓

Twin flame & Soulmates Runner & Chaser

Twin flame separation This process is very confusing when it comes to Twin flames and divine partners and also when there’s a feeling that they are stuck at the separation stage. This can go on for some time and needs to run its course. I’m asked so many times if this was an accident or mistake that they are in this type of situation. There are Twins in separation trying to speed the process or cut the ties. The truth is that there is no way to disconnect, speed or change the process. It is actually the stages of coming into a Twin flame reunion. Twin flames go through the Runner and Chaser stages. This is part of their individual emotional task that they need to work on, in order to release and surrender negativity. Trying to understand it can be very confusing. Why would someone who has found their other half gives them the most intense energy? Could they ever experience, run? The soul runner is not actually running from their twin or divine partner. But actually running away from themselves. The chaser is not exactly chasing the runner either but knows that there is something more beyond their connection. This is when they try to explain that they found their other half and wants to merge into a divine union. They will do everything in their power no matter what to let them know that they are still there. Twin flame runner and chasers can take years? It’s not how long they run or chase, but how long they need to heal and become grounded to themselves. Energetically, when you will stop running from your self. The twin flame runner stops running away from the relationship. This is all about working on yourself and raising your vibration when you start to find yourself on a higher vibrational frequency. The energy will be reciprocated because twin flames are connected and send energy to one another constantly. Twin flames mirror one another and when they begin to accept and love yourself. The energy of acceptance and unconditional love is what twin flames are feeling with each other. The separation stages will help unite twin flames. Balancing your energies deep inside your soul center will help your twin awaken. This is part of the motivation that is being sent and inspires your other half to feel safe and grounded. The separation actually helps them to realize who they truly are and how both of them can ground their true 5G energies together, into the higher frequencies and raising the vibrational level. Shifting your thoughts on grounding yourself. Giving yourself as much love will help your twin. I have been researching twin flames for many years along while working with twins. There’s no way to speed the twin flame union quicker, bring them back sooner or stop them from running or even disconnect from their divine soulmate or twin flame. However, there are things that can help with the process of running smoother with runners and separation. Think of it as there are many different life lessons that twin flames and divine partners need to go through with healing. Though you may not completely understand why separation is a lesson, it actually helps them to see their inner truth and awaken. The first must be ready to come into union, the only way to be possible is if they release the underlying issues beneath. Meditation and getting more in tune with spirituality will help twin flames understand and feel the calm to get past the separation anxiety.

This process is very confusing when it comes to Twin flames and divine partners and also when there’s a feeling that they are stuck at the separation stages 

This process is very confusing when it comes to Twin flames and divine partners and also when there’s a feeling that they are stuck at the separation stage. 

It would need to run its course until they are both ready. Read more on this topic

I’m asked so many times if this was an accident or mistake that they are in this type of situation. 

There are Twins in separation trying to speed the process or cut the ties.

The truth is that there is no way to disconnect, speed or change the process. It is actually the stages of coming into a Twin flame reunion.

Twin flames go through the Runner and Chaser stages. This is part of their individual emotional task that they need to work on, in order to release and surrender negativity.

Trying to understand it can be very confusing. Why would someone who has found their other half gives them the most intense energy?  Could they ever experience, run?

Runner & Chaser phases are something that occurs with most divine partner connections. This is something that cannot be avoided as divine partners including twin flames reach a divine union. The union is extreme and it does require that both twin souls be ready for one another. They are merging together as one and as they live their life, they need to eliminate all that has accumulated with excess baggage and negativity. There are several life lessons they encounter, for example releasing anger, abandonment issues, jealousy, hate, and emotional fear-based energies. Just a few of the old past wounds that they both carry without realizing. As they become ready, they are both in total partnership with one another to help each other work on themselves simultaneously in order to find themselves back home (Reunion). When there is a twin flame separation, it is very painful and seems that everything is lost in life. The connection that they feel can seem to trigger those past wounds I talked about earlier. Many times your twin will try to detach themselves from their connection. There may be some harsh words with denying the fact that there is a connection and/or any love between them two. The twin flame separation is a very extreme emotional pain. There is a compelling spiritual reason why it is all happening this way. This is not failure within a relationship, and though it is very painful. This is a process of understanding and navigating the energy prior to the divine union with your twin flame. Many people find it to be difficult and try to give up by cutting the cords as I mentioned in a previous article. But it is literally impossible to disconnect from your other half. Trying to find other ways to cope with this Runner & Chaser phases have been a priority for me and although it is not a permanent phase, that's the good news!. No matter how long it takes, it feels as if it is way too long inside the separation period. A very common question is how long is the average wait time for twin flames in separation with the Runner & Chaser stages. Each twin flame relationship needs to go to their own experience and each one is unique. Many will give a timeframe of between 1 to 3 years. Although that can be true but not necessarily happens for everyone. No one knows the actual time. Many times there are several years involved, even decades before they do finally find themselves in Union. I know this is not something we all want to hear but we may have to accept it. This will all depend on how much work they are doing on themselves and how advanced spiritually they are. When they are constantly fighting and denying the fact that there is a spiritual connection between them both, this may prolong their union, trying to explain the twin flames connection could make it worst. Often the Runner is the one running from their own inner truth. When meeting your twin, you’re actually looking at a soul mirror and at first, it may be the honeymoon stages but then it turns into an extreme fear of facing their authentic self. There are many different life lessons that each will go through and not necessarily all the same. You may not understand why they can’t get it and they won’t understand why they are compelled to an energy that they are afraid of. Will your twin flame will ever come back? You will no doubt miss your twin and always look for ways on how to either cut ties or speed the process. The whole point of the separation stages is not just coming into a Union to find true bliss. But it is for you both to find your authentic selves. Coming to unity into consciousness awareness. Twin flames will even go through the separation process even if they are not running. Both twins are actually working on their healing with awakening. They are bringing themselves into alignment with their higher selves in order to find their true centers as one. You may wonder why do they need to go through separation to find us? The physical separation is actually motivating them both to work even that much harder to come into a reunion. The separation stage isn’t always caused by the Runner & Chaser stages. As they both are healing on themselves individually and simultaneously. As they are meant to be separated otherwise, they would never be able to tolerate one another physically as a couple just yet. Many times they are total opposites of one another and their personalities would not be harmonious for that time. This forces twin souls to work that much harder and find their authentic selves. Helping them communicate to their soul exchange telepathically. Ego or narcissist behavior? Yes, this can trigger off a lot of emotional pain and sadness. Many times, one twin would be running into a narcissistic pattern and the other one, the Chaser, would be becoming codependent to the situation. This is when ego is actually the culprit for both twins causing them both to release the mask. You hear that release and surrender is necessary, and so it is. #1 it’s Ego. It can trigger off negative emotions that may bring up an emotional conflict that will interfere while working on themselves. Trying to find peace while going through separation stages. Finding your soul serenity will help you come to peace with inside yourself. As you work on yourself, you will realize more that your higher self is trying to help you find eternal peace with yourself. The same goes for your twin. Although the separation phase feels like it’s taking longer than it should, actually it’s all within divine timing. Meditation is the Key and raising your vibration will help you to find your soul center as you reciprocate the energy. Runner & Chaser phases are temporary, it’s all about letting go and self-learning on how to love yourself completely. It is totally worth it in the end!

The soul runner is not actually running from their twin or divine partner. But actually running away from themselves. 

The chaser is not exactly chasing the runner either but knows that there is something more beyond their connection. 

This is when they try to explain that they found their other half and wants to merge into a divine union. They will do everything in their power no matter what to let them know that they are still there.

Twin flame runner and chasers can take years? 

It’s not how long they run or chase, but how long they need to heal and become grounded to themselves. 

Energetically, when you will stop running from your self. The twin flame runner stops running away from the relationship.

This is all about working on yourself and raising your vibration when you start to find yourself on a higher vibrational frequency. 

The energy will be reciprocated because twin flames are connected and send energy to one another constantly.

Twin flames mirror one another and when they begin to accept and love yourself.  The energy of acceptance and unconditional love is what twin flames are feeling with each other.

The separation stages will help unite twin flames.

Balancing your energies deep inside your soul center will help your twin awaken. This is part of the motivation that is being sent and inspires your other half to feel safe and grounded. 

The separation actually helps them to realize who they truly are and how both of them can ground their true 5G energies together, into the higher frequencies and raising the vibrational level. Shifting your thoughts on grounding yourself.

Giving yourself as much love will help your twin.

I have been researching twin flames for many years along while working with twins.

There’s no way to speed the twin flame union quicker, bring them back sooner or stop them from running or even disconnect from their divine soulmate or twin flame.

However, there are things that can help with the process of running smoother with runners and separation. Think of it as there are many different life lessons that twin flames and divine partners need to go through with healing. 

Though you may not completely understand why separation is a lesson.

It actually helps them to see their inner truth and awaken.
The first must be ready to come into union, the only way to be possible is if they release the underlying issues beneath.

Meditation and getting more in tune with spirituality will help twin flames understand and feel the calm to get past the separation anxiety.

If you’re going through a difficult time with your divine soulmate or twin flame, for a limited time only, I am offering one free question. Read the instructions below and fill out the form.

One free question per person please ?

Watch my reading videos

Read the disclaimer


One Reply to “Twin flames & Soulmates: understanding the process with Runner & Chaser stages”

  1. Thank you very much for this article. Although it is an ordeal to be separated from my twin flame, your explanations help me to accept and understand the time of separation. It’s reassuring and encouraging !

    Reply ↓

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.