Understand the Separation from your Twin flame

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Twin flame Love

Many of of you know that I’ve been researching Soulmates and twin flame relationships for many, many years, not to mention finding my Twinflame 14 years ago.

I have learned extremely very valuable lessons that has helped many twin flame couples reunite and many others recognize their soulmate. it is all a similar process.

The most difficult part of the merging of Soulmates and twin flames, is that part of accepting that sometimes separation is necessary. When this does happens, it can feel that all hope is lost in your life, totally drained.

When this feeling of pain happens, It really does not make any sense, the extreme spiritual energy between twinflames is amplified and it’s really difficult to see anything clearly through all those emotions.

Through research and my own personal experience, I have found many reasons why this happens. If you have questions contact me for guidance, if something like is going on in your life. It is all going to work out. You have to have faith.

Reason of why Twinflames are separated:

This may not be the time for you both to unite, even is one of you are spiritual enough to recognize one another.

We are split from our twin flame in the beginning. The find ourselves connecting to the real other half of our spirit. Many tests and trials come when twin souls are about to unite in this lifetime. There are things that must happen to test us, sometimes to the extreme. Many things can separate true Soulmates and twin flames.

Just remember  as long you are both on this earth together it’s going to work out. The key here is to follow your HEART, listening to your spirit. We usually have to do the total opposite of we think is right to reach our true goal.

If you’re the twin that is waiting for your other half to become free from a test and trial, here’s how this will help. Try being caring, gentle and extremely patient. Remember if you push them to strong they will run away from you because your energy is way too strong for them to handle at that time.

There are many questions about twin flames and Divine soulmates. I will explain a little more on what your true purpose is. Twin flames are totally different, but still part of the Soulmate collective. With Soulmates, you have more than one and they serve different purposes throughout your life, but you only have one Twin flame. Twin flames can feel the dynamic energy that pulls them together as soon as they look into each other’s eyes. It’s a magnetic energy that is very intense. This feeling will be something that you have never experienced before. You can sense the feeling of relief as soon as you both meet, but at the same time there is an overwhelming sense of fear. Twin flames Divine union, it’s not about having the most beautiful romantic relationship. They are actually sent to help us learn about ourselves and find our authentic selves. Our egos automatically return back to 3-D and there is a painful push & pull surge of energy that becomes extremely difficult, like in a painful separation. This will feel like the most painful experience that you had ever felt and there is nothing that can relieve the pain. It’s like having this person 24/7 in your mind. Many times, past fear-based energy will come up and open up old wounds, making the both of you visualize and realize what are your own faults and how to correct them, along with releasing & surrendering in order to reach a higher frequency with one another to the 5D level. Twin flame connection process stages. Twin flames are set together to work on themselves energetically and simultaneously. Though they both need to be ready and order for union to take place. Even if one twin thinks they’re ready that their twin isn’t, it is in fact very mutual and they both are not ready. This is called the ego-based energy, no matter how much you worked on yourself, there’s always something else that you need to work on. What is the twin flame purpose? Many think that Twin flames are the ultimate love connection and everyone wants their Twin flame to be united. Yes, because the feelings are so intense, but it is not what they are intended to do together on earth. Before they can find love and a total bliss with one another, there is so much work they need to do on themselves in order to get things right. Twin flames can feel the 5D energy level when they are together, and then pulled back into the 3-D in order to work on themselves and see where they are at in order to become they’re authentic self. Twin flames can go to those highs and lows for many years before they do finally get things balanced. There is usually a separation phase that happens before they can realize their mistakes. Many times, Ego is the biggest Challenge, which they need to remove an order to see their inner truth. This is the main reason why they go through the separation phase. Often referred to the Runner and the Chasers stages. In order for them to heal and learn about themselves, they need to find themselves in total solitude in order to relate to their inner strength and open their heart. Ego can prevent them from supporting and gaining strength with the higher purpose to connect and serve others. At the beginning stages, Twin flames are meant to test and get through the challenges in order to release egotistical power over themselves and surrendering to one another to find their own balance. Because of their deep intense connection, the separation can go on for some time, in many cases years. As they struggle and merge harmoniously towards one another, Twin flames have a higher calling with each other and to serve the world. They first need to be healed and come into a complete balance. Twin flames heart center connect energetically and telepathically. They can receive messages with love and reassurances that they are connected and coming together. Although it is not a physical voice, the energetic feeling of just knowing their other half is right next to them. In order to find their true authentic self, they must first find the balance inside each other. There are many unresolved issues and past old wounds that need healings. They must be released and they need to come to terms with. When twin flames first meet, a certain trigger happens and their emotions are amplified to the highest level, as though they may feel the love in 5D, there’s also unresolved issues that seem to come to the surface. Twin flames are not meant to feel pain but depending on what they have been through all their lives and prior to meeting, they need to work on themselves in order for the Divine union to happen. Twin flame emotional energies need to open up and accelerates one another’s hearts center. Once they opened their heart, they need to accept and learn to love themselves, then they will be able to submit their spirits as one, coming into a Divine union and feeling a total bliss… the most highest energy of love. Twin flames: their true purpose and spiritual dynamics

Separation – when your twinflame leaves you for a while.

They have Karmic energy to work on before they are ready to unite with you on the right path. The most important thing is they follow their heart, not getting caught up with distractions or other opinions.

Their heart knows exactly the right spirit path to take.
Twinflames are the whole of being one – eternally connected. They love you unconditionally even if their conscious mind does not really understand it. The Spirit does.

When you are separated from your twinflame with no contact, this is the most stressful time in your whole life. But never panic, let go or give up.

This is the best time to increase your spiritual connection to the divine light. Using this time to heal, developing your spiritual skills and knowledge. Then you are united with your twin soul, and it will be the most amazing experience!

You both will have the ultimate power to go and change the world together. Stay strong for your Twinflame and don’t give up.

You may have already met your twinflame. Maybe it started out as a great friendship or you dated for a while. There could of been one being the runner and the other chaser, reaching for  what they couldn’t get or understand.

Seeing the numbers 1111, 1:11 or 11:11, it’s not just a coincidence. When you are seeing these numbers pop up randomly, this is an indication of your higher self, giving you a message and nudging you to notice these numbers. What does 1111 mean? These are ascending angel numbers and it is a way to reassure us all that we are not alone, we have guidance. We are getting support on our divine Soulmate or twin flame journey. Most commonly, you will notice it when you are at a lowest point in your life, when you are going through changes and you may see other numbers such as 2222, 4444, and etc. These are your messages coming from above that you need to have faith in and to find out what you believe in your heart and focus on working on yourself. When you are involved in a twin flames separation, these angel ascending numbers will pop up almost everywhere, most commonly when you least expect it and look at the clock and there it is 111, 1111, 222, 2222 also 4444. 1111 represents an inner soul level and that there is more work that needs to be done on yourself. That you are also turning into your higher self, triggering of spiritual energy that will begin to change. It indicates manifestation and an opening to a new soul cycle that is about to begin. 1111 is about oneness and uniting with your other half, it’s symbolized by energy going up from twin flames coming into Divine Union. The date 11/11 is a very important part of the spiritual Journey with twin flames. This a very Spiritual and an important time to meditate in order to telepathically communicate with your divine partner. Because of this particular date, having an ascending number 1111 attracts spiritual energy. Twin flames are beginning to manifest, they both will see the numbers 1111, along with the other ascending angel numbers. This is giving them both indication that is something spiritually and energetically behind the scenes. 1111 also represents two worlds coming together as one. Along with the higher self and human soul, it’s all about balance and alignment with two souls becoming one. Meditation helps with aligning and activating your 7 chakras. When the 7 chakras are in an alignment, telepathic heart to heart communications can be expressed through meditation. It’s important to clear your energy and also shield yourself from negativity that you may pick up from others, this can be anyone and it’s best to try to avoid anyone who brings your vibration down. It’s important to keep yourself grounded and focus on yourself as you work on, alongside and simultaneously with your twin flame. Coming into a Divine Union is a very challenging experience. It’s always important to remember to follow your inner guidance and your higher self to help you along with your soul path. This is a very spiritual time for everyone as we prepared for Mercury retrograde and the end of Venus retrograde at the same time. There will be emotional and spiritual with a lot of energy flare ups that you may feel throughout this month and the next.

This is very common too.
Your twinflame is the opposite of you. Everything is intensified and you will feel like a magnet to metal. If one twin has a strong a desire to reunite with their other half, the energy flips and may go to the opposite, pushing them away because of fear.

You both mirror one other so when one turns to fear or tries to control  the situation. It’s really important to have restraint for the positive and love for each other.

It is how they want to be loved. Try turning to a gentle kind and understanding if they are in a runner phase. Not wanting to lose or give up on them, but giving them the freedom to allow them to return when they are ready and feel secure.

Do you have a question about your love relationship?

14 Replies to “Understand the Separation from your Twin flame”

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  3. Thank you for this.

    I needed to read this my life has been so hectic and painful. I truly believe that I have met my twin flame but unfortunately hes in a relationship and it hurts me every single day. I have never felt so lost and confused in my whole entire life, I genuinely love him but I have also realized that I have work to do on myself. I will have faith that one day this will all make sense for me.

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  4. I agree I have meet my twin soul and it is a painful connection he is going through some things and I have to learn to be patient he has not contacted me in a month and my heart is so heavy and I’m in so much pain. I can’t wait until we reconnect you see I’m in a relationship and I don’t know if he is ready to be apart of this relationship we connected 3 months ago and I never thought I could fall in love so fast but I did he is also very spiritual and may feel guilty about being involved with a married woman, I do love him so I have to be patient.

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  5. Can I get a sizzor and cut the bond between twin flames Jajaja… It’s a never ending story funny part is… We are separated due to sircunstances.. But, he always come back to me spent matter if it’s years

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  6. Hi, I am currently going through my twin separation and was led to write about our lessons. If anyone would like to join me through the story and pain of my journey,
    So far it resonated with people and I am using my ability to help while healing.

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  7. I’m going through a separation phase with my twin flame. He’s just not ready and I understand and accept but omg it’s so painful and hard to sit here and wait. I’ve never felt this way before.

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  8. It’s funny because I am experiencing this right now. I did not understand why, but after reading about this, it makes total sense of what I am going through. Initially I went through an emotional phase, but I now feel more confident and positive at this point. I am currently working on me and focusing on my goals. When he returns, then I know it will be good.

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  9. I met mine in August. I don’t think he realized there was a name to our connection. I had a very vivid dream about him 8 months prior to knowing he existed. I wrote that dream down and the details played out when I met him of no prompting of my own will. After everything occured the first month I remembered that dream and found my journal entry.
    It shook my very foundation then started reading about two flames.
    I made the conscious decision to leave the relationship almost a month ago. We were so intense upon first meeting.
    It dwindled down to him traveling extensively and working himself to exhaustion. I can’t do long distance. It tears me apart so I left after two months long distance. Couple that with his troubles expressing himself verbally when it came to me or our relationship…. What choice did I have? My emotional needs weren’t met. But I was meeting his. 🙁

    It’s only been a month but I still have a strange ache in the center of my chest and twisting of my gut when I realize we aren’t together.
    I’ve been in many relationships but none has come close to effecting me like this one.
    Will he come back? I don’t know. I am afraid to hope so. I could barely function the first few weeks.
    I don’t think I could see him on the street without turning into a blubbering mess.
    I wish I never knew of this twin flame theory. It’s true and it hurts too much.

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  10. I believe the person I am meant to be with, I have know my entire life. Earliest memory I have would be them moving into their parent’s house and my family helping them move, I was maybe 3 or 4. He’s always been on and off my mind throughout different periods in my life. We went to different schools growing up so we were not steadily in each others lives, but I had my own little way of keep tabs as I got older. He used to compete at a track near one of my friends houses and the intercoms were loud enough I could hear the competition from their house. One night when I was maybe 17, I even talked a friend into sneaking up there and watching just so I could get a glimpse at him. We eventually re-connected via social media years later, but I was dating someone else at the time so we just exchanged casual catch up. Within days of my “relationship status” change after that relationship ended, he contacted me to meet up. We then started spending a lot of time together, that things then got hot and heavy between us. Sometimes, I honestly couldn’t keep my hands off of him, which was completely unlike me since I had only 2 serious boyfriend’s I was intimate with before him. Something happened a few months later though and he strayed when met someone else. We had a huge blowup and falling out after… I was left completely heart-broken and very lost. I turned into a different person after. I was never the same. It took me a while to move on and I met someone else and eventually got married. Over the last year though, I had a dream that changed something in me and it was about him. Ever since, he is all I can think about. I lost weight because I wasn’t really eating and been having some issues sleeping. Something keeps drawing me closer to him, like I need him in life. It’s almost turned into an obsession, I hate it. I tried to reach out to him just to break the ice and see if we could make peace and he refuses to acknowledge me. I feel almost if I am going crazy. Some days I would literally walk completely way from my life now to be with him and then others, I have too much at stake to lose now. I built and entire life without him in it after he walked away from me. I don’t know what I do or how I can get past this… Any advice is appreciated.

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    • I feel heartbroken yet empowered after hearing yr story . Loving someone truly doesn’t mean expecting the same in return. One sided love has its own power , power stronger than fulfilled love . I’m going thru unfulfilled love from my twin flame as well. Learn to love unconditionally. God bless.

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